Perfect Peace for Big Transistions
- Alisen Bigerton
- Aug 9
- 3 min read
“My loves, hear me: if our peace is centered on good circumstances, then our peace will be incredibly fragile.”
“You will keep in perfect peace all who trust in you, whose thoughts are fixed on you!” Isaiah 26:3 NLT
Back-to-school time is a unique experience for us moms and for our kids. It can be full of excitement to go to school for the first time, learn new things, and see friends again. It can also be anxiety-inducing. Our kids may be worried about being away from us, starting at a new school, burnout, how they will be perceived, or one hundred other things. In my experience, we moms share many of their concerns, in addition to concerns over what type of influences our children will encounter. And while all these concerns are real and valid, scripture tells us not to worry. So, what is the solution?
Our scripture tells us God will keep us in perfect peace when we keep our thoughts on Him. The CSB version says, “You will keep the mind that is dependent on you in perfect peace, for it is trusting in you.” My loves, hear me: if our peace is centered on good circumstances- on our kids making it into/onto all the bands, plays, teams, etc.; being popular and staying out of trouble; always having good grades; or whatever other outcomes we desire- then our peace will be incredibly fragile. The unfortunate reality is that disappointments will happen. Grades can slip, team and casting cuts can be made, and our kids won’t always make the best decisions. Circumstances can change faster than the weather in Ohio, and then the peace that was attached to a good situation completely shatters.
That is why the key is what we fix our minds on. The same God Isaiah says will keep us in peace when we trust Him is the One portrayed as a refuge and shelter for those in need and as a righteous judge in Isaiah 25. The God who will ultimately triumph over all evil, and even over death itself is the One who is watching over our babies. Circumstances change; our God does not. So, fix your eyes on Him and rest in the knowledge that ultimately things will be ok.
As you reflect on this truth, memorize today’s verse and/or write it where you will frequently see it. Repeat it to yourself mentally or out loud throughout today and the week to remind yourself of God’s promise. If your children are old enough, have them work on memorizing it with you.
Faith Follow-Through:
This week, take some time to grow in motherhood and faith:
Tuesday:
Neuroplasticity-the ability to change neural pathways and thought patterns in the brain- works by strengthening frequently used pathways. Picture wearing part of a grassy area down to dirt by walking the same path day after day after day. This means that in order to fix our minds on God, we must practice. Ask the Spirit to make you aware of your thoughts, and when they lean toward worry, take them to God. Tell Him what you’re concerned about and ask Him to help You trust in Him.
Wednesday:
Ask your children how they feel about going to school. Validate their feelings, both positive and negative, and pray with them to model taking everything to God. If they are old enough, work with them on creating a plan to handle feelings of loneliness, anxiety, burnout, etc. whether that means speaking with a trusted adult or teacher at school, learning to manage time, whatever that looks like for them.
Thursday:
Pray with your kids over the upcoming school year and ask God to direct their steps. Remind them often that they are never alone and they can always pray in their minds for help. God loves them and always hears them.
Written by Alisen, mom of 1
